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In today's world, getting what you want is simple. But it sure as hell isn't easy.

See, if you really wanted, you could walk into a bookstore right now and buy at least 10 books by authors in any area you wanted to pursue. You could open up Google and find at least 1,000 step-by-step-by-step instruction guides on how to get it. Hell, you can search anybody online that's been there and done that and be in touch with them in an hour.

So why don't most of us have what we want?

Well, according to Mel Robbins, an ivy-educated criminal lawyer on one of the top career and relationship experts in America, the honest answer is because we are screwing ourselves over.

Watch as she drills through the mental clutter that stands between ourselves and what we want and gives us a straight-forward answer on how to force, yes, force ourselves to get after what we want.

Sit back and enjoy it.

It's worth it.